Something for the Journey
Rev. Melissa Carvill Ziemer, Director of Ministries for Collegial Care

How can we grow in wisdom in our roles as clergy? What can help us deepen our understanding of generational worldviews? Where can we turn when we are feeling the loneliness of our vocation? There are many answers to these questions. We could pursue coaching with a goal of deepening our wisdom in one particular area of our ministry. We could sign up to take a class on generational theory. We could go to a chapter gathering to connect with colleagues. Those are all good answers. And here is another one: mentoring. The mentoring relationship can be a place for all of these ways of growing, deepening and connecting plus some. Our mentors can show us the ropes, help us hear ourselves, ask challenging questions and celebrate our successes. In mentoring we need not set an agenda in advance. The heart of mentoring is relational and takes what is for the mentee as a good place to begin. There is room for sharing information when warranted, but more than that, a good mentoring relationship creates space for discernment. The mentor is alternately a colleague, a listener, a guide, a companion, a model, a teacher or a witness as invited by the moment and the mentoring relationship.
The gifts of mentoring are many, and I hope we can all offer testimony as a result of our experiences of good mentoring in our lives. The possibilities for mentoring are not limited to people early in formation, either. There is room for mentoring across the lifespan of our vocation when we face new roles or challenges, and when we live into new identities or experiences. While we each bring inherent and cultivated gifts when we are invited to mentor, many of us could use some guidance about how we can bring our unique gifts and capacities to the role in support of the flourishing of another. I’m excited to share that Larry Peers and Kimberly Quinn Johnson are working together to revamp and deepen our mentor training experience. We are offering it live this spring on Zoom with support from the UUA and will record the sessions so that prerecorded, on demand mentor training will be available for colleagues who want to learn more about mentoring in the future. It will be wonderful to have a robust gathering of people for the live training this spring. If deepening your practice of mentoring calls to you, we would love to have you join us.
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